The Second Part @ Quora

I don’t expect this to see at Quora…as of today I have 10K answer views with 8 followers.  I joined only this month after the first question on July 27, 2018.  This is really overwhelming.

August  5&10 -14, 2018 Friday to Tuesday

What is a wisdom to head and heart essays?

It is the maturity wisdom at the head and empathy as wisdom at the heart 🙂

As a person who cares for other is by using the heart to feel what is the missing point in their lives meanwhile knowing the condition of other people is the maturity itself for thinking all sides of life to sacrifice.

The both wisdom work hand and hand to put in the situation of being the utmost and highest level of comprehension.

574 Views – 2 Votes

What screams “I am a new parent”?

Usually I heard that to the new daddy saying “Yes I am daddy now!”

That is excited, full of enthusiasm to hug the new baby and carry him.  The tears of joy for the feeling of relieved after 9 months from the wife’s womb, the excitement and overjoyed.

The father is over protective to the kids especially if baby girl, always special and priority to pamper everything 🙂

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What are the eight practical solutions on how risk behavior can be prevented?

  1. Pray
  2. Make a contingency plan including the alternative or options to the plan.
  3. Choose the first priority.
  4. Be systematic and organize.
  5. Be optimistic in taking risks.
  6. Focus on the target goal and always stick to it.
  7. Stay as humble as you are so don’t hesitate to ask help if necessary.
  8. Be open to every referral.

577 Views – 1 Vote

What is the thing that a husband can give to his wife after marriage but the wife cannot give to the husband?

I know the answer it is to have done sex in different positions ha ha ha!  How the wife can perform all if she doesn’t like it.  The husband could not easily convince the wife to give the best performance in it.

Am I bad for revealing this 🙂


As a doctor or nurse in the emergency room, have you ever been puzzled by the cause of a patient’s ailment?

Yes.  When I took my training in the caregiving course, I was assigned in the  pediatric section and I could simply diagnosed if patient had dengue fever because we used tourniquet in the arm of the patient to check the unusual rashes, the result was may be positive then for confinement to observe the rise and fall of platelets.  The on and off of fever is one of the signs and symptoms 🙂

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What if I told you that Satan was influencing you thru the Watchtower society with 99 percent truth and 1 percent lie and he did it by telling you, you can’t understand the Bible without the watchtower?

I have to stick to my belief because that is how Satan do temptation like when Jesus Christ challenged the devil to make bread from stone, the Satan said if you are true God you can easily do that…some style of the devil on how to win bad or the darkness.  Another form of deception to make people believe that there is no God exists.

I understand the Bible 🙂

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Are you telepathic and can you hear what strangers in close proximity are thinking and if so what is the meanest thing anyone has ever said about you in their thoughts which you heard?

If I have given that, I want to hear how the couple talk about how they love each other, how they show that love to one another and how sex could make them things work out if the relationship is in trouble.  How they manage the intense lovers quarreled 🙂


What are the things you could do to motivate non-physician staff at private hospitals who have become extremely disengaged, have lost commitment and don’t care about patients?

In the Nursing Theorists Book, it tackles how to develop empathy to be applied in the hospital setting.  It can be learned first in the school but since you are already working which the motivation is quite harder to see…it is better that Nursing Association should conduct seminar on how to apply empathy in every patients.  It is difficult on the side of the patients and families that nobody cares the hasten recovery and the healing process in the application at hospital setting so if the seminar is compulsory for Non-Physician at least everyone is willing to participate.  In the renewal of license it should be obligatory to have seminar before allowing the renewal of their licenses.  I am sure that is the effective way to motivate workers.

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What are the subconscious signs that a girl likes a guy?

Through the way they look at each other.

For treating the guy special…the girl is attentively serves him secretly.

She makes a way to come closer and to be friendly as much as possible.

She is aware to the activities he is joining then she does join either to notice her presence.

72 Views – Answer requested by Marcus Tang

How do you tell your 17.5 year old daughter that you are sick of her not helping with housework?  I already tried bluntly telling her.  Should I take away her phone & Xbox?

It is difficult to discipline children in Westernize countries according to them.  They are stubborn, the freedom is not used in a proper way.  To obey parents are rarely experience by them.  How to share them that the concerned to fellowmen has to show.  The parents should establish the rapport inside the house to mold them what is the necessary good attitude that a person should have.  It is the love and respect to be inculcated in them.

The over- used of gadgets that can destroy to be connected.  Set the time to use it for the quality time to spend in the family time 🙂

64 Views – 1 Vote

What is a nurse’s worst nightmare?

The wrong insertion of needle size instead to brachial site, she inserted on the apical site.  Another is the intermittent flow or the fastest flow of medicine through the bottle going inside the body so the tendency is the patient’s chilling because of the nonstop flowing of medicine.

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There was a mentally ill man that I worked with and he needed something.  So he was constantly asking this woman if he could get or do something and she ignored him for fifteen minutes ad hid her face from him.  What should he have done instead?

She did not want to talk the man why she was trying to ignore him.  Probably she felt annoyed in his presence.  Feel bored talking to mentally ill man, only few workers has the patience to understand them…they are reluctant to show their importance in the society.


As an emergency department doctor or nurse, what’s the most clever and effective DIY fix you’ve seen a patient come in with?

Do the Nursing interventions like the name of patients, the profile and the medical history if there is already medical record to check.  Check the allergies and jot it down.  Don’t forget the vital signs for checking.  Taking up blood pressure, respiratory rate and the application of SOP.


What is the work life of a physician compared to a physician assistant?

The limited knowledge of assistant physicians.  They  might be lacking in some units to be registered physician.  Physicians are already registered doctor, the know- how of what the physician can do.  The salary is much better obviously from assistant physicians.  For assistant physicians it doesn’t mean the future would stop like that, the opportunity is open to become registered physician.

48 Views – 2 Votes

How much should parents worry about what their kids are doing online?

Social media is helpful and very useful but it can destroy the person if they misused and abused using this.  Be cautious in dealing transaction through internet, there are many scammer who dwell to the point of various tricks just for easy money.  But on the contrary, this serves as the sources of information that can feed as to find the accurate and necessary answer to the research that are assigned to us.  Well expect the pros and cons to deal with the using of internet.


If 2 persons were left on an island, one of them is highly intelligent and the other person has average intelligence, who will be capable to rescue himself and the other?

In Castaway, he survived together with Wilson, and it took long ago when he was rescued; well I guess the two could not easily survive.  It is not based how intelligent a person from the other…if you are destined to stay longer, you could not find solution abruptly.

The two should cooperate on how their love ones know they are still alive.  Just wish the island is populous to ask help then that is the time to find rescuers.  Although the one is highly intelligent, he is more than enough to rescue, the people could not choose who deserves to survive, they are trying to rescue both the way they can as much as possible because that is saving lives.

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What makes a job the perfect job?  How do I know if this is what I want to do for the rest of my life?

Follow your heart, it is your happiness to do what makes you feel comfortable in doing things.  If your passion into something is like that then go…do it.

The perfect job is depend on your standard because as we all know there is no existence of ‘perfect’ in everything, it is in us how to base the word perfection.

Just enjoy the things you think you will be satisfied 🙂

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Why are there some people here that will give uneducated and wrong answers without doing any kind of research or present facts?  Why do people think it is okay to just make stuff up and try to spread their idiocy?

If I know the answer I can quickly type my messages because I am sure I am right with the information I am sharing but if I am sort of doubt, I leave it like that and proceed to the next question, we should feed right information here as much as possible because obviously they need the accurate answer and it should be based on facts.

I find Quora the one which is reliable in conducting interviews from researchers who need valid answer and honestly I would recommend them if somebody asks me where to find respondents in thesis writing, it helps really so please this is not a joke,

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What is the ideal mind set, intelligence, or motivation of a student that is hoping to pursue his/her entry into a nursing or medical school?

I had an accident when I was in Dubai. You know the nurse in Kuwaiti Hospital was the one who made the stitches of my forehead.  When it comes to skills, Nurses are expecting to do the same.  In the minimal supervision, if the doctor is not available, they can do what actually the doctor’s expect them to.

That after absorbing the lesson, try to have an application in the hospital setting.  Why today there is specified title like Pediatric Nurse and so on.  They have to undergo a specialization.

After Bachelor Degree, go to the Masteral to see the continuity.

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What is a doctor’s nightmare?

If they are not successful to cure patients.  If they fail to heal the illness that patients expect him to do so.

If the patient failed to pay the hospital bill and if they run away from paying.


How long can a person admitted to a mental hospital?

They can stay there forever.  The reaction is observed once they take meds as tranquilizer.

It depends on the patients on how to take the process of medication.  If the patient is responsive and very willing to be cured, it takes a short period of months and it always depends on the case.

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I’ve got major depressive disorder treatment resistant.  Meds, exercise, hospital, ECT don’t work.  I feel like things will end by my own hand, sooner or later.  I’ve got 3 kids under 10.  How long should I try to endure things for the sake of my kids?

Just pray to God.  Cry out loud and come closer.  He moves in the life of everyone mysteriously.  Trials sometimes trigger us on how to cope up with it.  Medicine can help if you take it continuously but still prayer is effective healing process.  Just the strong faith to believe His own way how to heal you.  He can do miracle and it is the Bible can prove how great and magnificent God we have.  Try the covenant prayer.  Confess your sins directly to God just follow ACTS, and it is stand as Adoration, Contrition, Thanksgiving and Supplication.

I hope I can help you with this share 🙂

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I’ve always wanted to know everything from a child to a teen, now I (think) I do, and I also hate it.  What is going on in my head?  How do I cope with these sudden feelings?

The sudden feeling is part of growth.  To accept changes from childhood to teenage life should be observed, there are many factors to consider like the how a child thinks and acts meanwhile as teenagers the finesse of moving should be shown because being a lady like and the puberty period.  Those changes are not easily adaptable to do.  The beginning to like opposite sex unlike being a child, you are simply playing without any thoughts but as teen you become curious in so many things 🙂

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How important are additional medical opinions  to patients?

To make sure if the first diagnostic is valid and reliable.  The second opinion can help alleviate the feeling of disappointment in some patients.

The second opinion is the final result of some tests to see what gonna be the next move to do to cure the illness.

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Why nobody is willing to support me to become a psychologist?

The profession is really the serious thing.  You can become a guidance counselor at school.  Why is important to you what people say…go and find the vacancy to start your career I am telling you, no regrets for taking the course.  You are not just simply employee in a certain company plus the fact the attractive salary is waiting for you.  If you get the job, treat them if you receive your first salary.  Be proud that you are a trainee psychologist in prestigious company.  Remember me if it happens to you good luck 🙂

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Which would you prefer, knowing yourself better or having more opportunities in life?

It is better to have more opportunities in life because you will know yourself better if you are equipped to a certain job.  It is a test of your ability to work in a field which is your expertise and by the time more opportunities come in your way, the better knowing of yourself well for accepting the job offer as flexible and productive employee you would be 🙂

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How do you get in touch with your emotions?  I’m addicted and lost and I don’t trust anyone.

No man is an island.  Open your heart to confide things it really helps to alleviate what you have through.  That is the problem why the suicidal cases are getting worse day by day.  You have to open up.  There are many depressed people who don’t cooperate so how to cope an individual sentiments if you just keep away yourself from us.

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If a book/documentary came out that spoke of human the good, bad, and ugly side of people, how do you think it would be received by the majority?

That is being fair if we try to analyze the situation because as human being we are apparently with the combination of negative and positive attitude.  There is happiness and loneliness, not all are always favor to the happiness or the sweetest side only because we need to be fully grown up to experience the bitter side of life.  As we have noticed, the occurrence of advantages and disadvantages, the harmful and beneficial effects of things that being tackled.  The good and bad news so I am pretty sure the majority would realize to patronize that kind of unusual documentary.

It is just a matter of a thorough explanation of a writer in his craft, how he makes it more interesting and people would like it.

That is something unique because no one has ever done it yet, they are particularly focusing the good side of a person.

We are not consistent facing life at on the top…there are downfalls or shortcomings and this kind of topics are reliable, and credible because this is from true to life story.

I hope you like my answer 🙂

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Is it more painful to be burned to death or to be frozen to death?

Frozen to death for seeing my whole self than burned to death, they could not imagine what I looked like unlike if frozen, my face could easily be identified, they could easily determine I am that person 🙂

14 Views – Answer requested by Dan Andrews

If we are what we eat, could our behaviors be changed by just changing our food?

I don’t think so…it depends on how people treat their fellowmen.  Moslems don’t eat pork but there are many Filipina rape victims from Arab countries, they are like pig for treating Filipinos there.

It doesn’t reflect to what we eat, it is the behavior and not based on the food.


How did you find your motivation in life?  I considered my life as meaningless because it was loveless.  I was very shy and I had low self-esteem.  I didn’t want to die, but I wasn’t interested in life.  I was spectator of my life.

You are depressed.  Go to somewhere else to relax, meditate and stress free, your life would not only evolve in having a relationship to opposite sex.  Meet new friends and do things which are newly heard, something different and unique just restore your interest to other things.  New discovery can help your worth and please try to pray earnestly.  Talk to God and ask to guide you by the Holy Spirit to make you refine and happy again 🙂

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From your perspective, what is something hard for any kid to understand?

Why the parents need to live separately.

Why to come up with the filing of divorce if things will work out through them…that kids are the weapon to have strong bind one’s family.  Why the parents’ pride sometimes hinder to become a family again.  Why they could not decide just for the sake of the kids to be reunited and forgive each other then, forget the bad times to settle things to become good again…

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 jlvd06questions answer



I don’t know what may be the reaction of WordPress for posting this blog in this site…

I visit Quora and Simple Site.  I also have an account there to blog.  Well my reason is they have different contents of blogging like in Quora that the style is Q & A while in Simple Site, is somewhat different too and whatever site is, it has the uniqueness to be joined…

Let me share these here….The questions are from Quora and these are my answers….

How many of you vote or think differently than your parents when it comes to politics, and do you discuss your opinions with them?

Yes we almost discussed about politics issue, the good governance of the present administration that we understand.  I am trying to persuade them the change for themselves first like the on-time payment of taxes to avoid penalties unlike their times that they have been delinquent taxpayer.  I instill them the difference of paying on-time for the discount to be given and the amount is not bigger compare to being negligent to the responsibility they have.

I do explain what is the right thing than keeping what they used to do.  The application of change by heart so be conscientious of doing what is pleasant to the eyes of God.  I am trying to inculcate being an influencer for the necessary obligation to comply with the accordance of the law.

The COMELEC removed the name of not voters from the previous years, the failure to vote because OFW.  I am active and still in the list.

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What are the differences between graduate degrees, undergraduate degrees, master’s degrees, bachelor’s degrees, etc. in the USA?

Philippines and USA have the same pattern when it comes to education.  Bachelor degree are still considered undergraduate, 4 years are bachelor degree and bachelor degree is undergraduate course and so they should take the units in masteral to be called graduate degree.  Thanks and that’s all 🙂

45 Views – Answer requested by Eric Cherny

You can change 3 things in the last 200 years to try and make things better for one country or people.  What would you change, and what impact do you think it would have?

  1. It is the transition to federal form of government in the Philippines.
  • to become more developed country when it comes to agricultural research on how the Philippines can have productive and healthy land that can be produced more palay to become rice granary and not just sufficient to the country but rather we can contribute to the neighborhood countries and no need to import. The farmers are trying to give up to work in the field so if the Philippines can provide equipment to lessen working in the field because of old age, the machine can do the rest for the plantation of seeds in the rice field.
  1. It is to serve with compassion and empathy to Filipinos.
  • If the previous leaders’ really aim to help Filipinos, we are not suffering the tremendous poverty because it is the corruption pushed them to theft the funds. It should improve the infrastructure and development that we expect to see the real change. The expectations to become far ahead in all areas of development.  The gradual uplifting the life of an individual for allowing the two child policy law.
  1. The religious leaders respect the constitution that is apparently stated “the separation of the church and state.”
  • Since the beginning of time that I have started to become aware about Philippine Society, the Catholic Church does not stand as Mediator rather they are trying to bring destruction so if they support all the way change is to be seen every now and then.

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Can a woman accept to marry a poor and unstable man or conditions would interfere in their life?

Being poor is not permanent status in life.  If you are figuring out the picture of your dreams you tend to make a way to pursue to get what you want to achieve in life.

Sometimes the person needs an inspiration to do the things to change life for the better.

Just talk to arrange things for the couple.

38 Views –Answer requested by Mario Mabuoch Ngor

Why do teenagers value most of their friendships more than their family?

Sometimes they feel being neglected by family circle why they are inclined to be with friend.  They can open up their problems so friends understand what they have been through.

The resentment to the own family and the tendency is to become aloof to tell anything the burden, the pain of being maltreated from the house.

The parents push their children why they are not in good terms.  Sometimes they can’t establish the family bonding because they are busy to spend the family time to be together even just once.

30 Views – Answer requested by Ethnan Escobedo – 1 Vote

If you had to choose to be one animal for an entire year of your life, which one would you choose and why?

It is a dog.  A man’s best friend. Dogs are sweet and I want to play with dogs.  They can protect people so I know I can also do that.  They are lovers, good lovers to describe.

34 Views – Answer requested by Matt Troetti – 1 Vote

When do you know when to walk away from an argument?

If you stop replying, it is the preference to remain silent so they know you are out of focus and they let them speak without any uttering words from you 🙂

26 Views – Answer requested by Matthew Nun

Do people generally feel negative about a couple with a large age gap?  Why?

That is not big issue anymore.  My husband was 11 years older than me and we had good relationship.  That is a matter of give and take pattern to understand each other.  In fact, it is good to talk with the man older because they almost live more than a decade to share stories during those times that I was not born yet.  I learned things and I used to understand the gap 🙂

19 Views – Answer requested by Brent Brown – 1 Vote

What is the most lucrative field to go into, today?

In medical field, it never fails.  That is the field that is stable.  The income is good, you can acquire the best benefits for the family.

24 Views – Answer requested by James Rath

What course of career change should I undertake in order to be very well paid but that wouldn’t take me too many years to learn?

As what I have observed, having a bachelor degree has the huge opportunity to be well paid because they are the ones who are candidates for the promotion.  It really takes time to exert an effort to finish studies on the specific time frame.  Why do you need to rush everything if you are thinking the big picture of your future…

19 Views – Answer requested by Rick Ferr

Do intelligent people still have to ask for help if they can’t figure something out?  I know we should all learn to be self- proficient, but to what extent?

Usually intelligent people are unaware to what is really happening because when it comes to love they are the opposite of being the intelligent one.  It is their pride that refuse to accept that one part in her life is failure.  It is noticeable that they never approach other people to confide things.

18 Views – Answer requested by Cody Pafford

Is it more difficult to be passionate about something as we get older?  Why?

I think older men are more passionate.  They tend to give the best for the partner to make them feel satisfied…the feeling that no other men would take place because they are enough for the love.  No one will commit adultery if they can give what their partner needs.  And no one will ever cheat if the satisfaction meets and always reminded the significance of them to feel protected and loved.

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Is there a way for me to encourage my spouse to be more responsible?

Yeah if you have kids to support, the huge responsibility is waiting for the wonderful parents on how they are going to provide their needs to survive.

Encourage in a way, being an inspired to work hard to meet your standards for being responsible parents to children or as an individual.

12 Views – Answer requested by Nic Ro

How do you want people to view you?

I want to be remembered once they view me.  I want my message the remarkable one…that they would remember me and instill my name in their hearts that what I am writing here can help a lot to feel relieved and the truthfulness from the heart comes out because I already convinced them to share their sentiments, feel free to say what’s on their minds then voice it out 🙂

16 Views – Answer requested by Andrew Koltuniuk – 2 Votes


An Essay to Be a Competitive Individual


This is what I have done as prerequisite in the requirements (Essay 500 words) this is necessary for the completion of undergraduate courses why it is needed to comply with.

My sister gave her draft on how to make it.  Well after reading what she had done, I told my mother the distinction of my works from her.  In my comparison, what a heck was her way of doing the composition.  She is degree holder but her English is exactly like the fundamental English in primary school then I proudly share mine to my mother.  As usual, she opened her eyes wide and scolded me for the comparison I had made.  I have realized and have forgotten for a while that my sister is the favorite daughter.  Of course, in mom’s eyes, she is the best daughter for her.  No appreciation for the essay that I almost composed for my elder sister.

I am enjoying while doing this.  I am so inspired to compose this essay.  Our generation is the awakening realization that only to become an overseas Filipino worker (OFW) is the means to survive in a decent way of living and having with huge amount of compensation that the Philippines could not offer.

Well two heads are better than one and since this is not for me, but this is my own style of writing, and only my sister feeds the necessary inputs to make the whole content filled which is related to her profession as Physiotherapist who wants to take some units to take the methods of teaching.


To pursue a higher education is an edge to acquire huge opportunities in different levels like adapting the new modern technologies, the equipment used in the facilities and to upgrade some innovations in the chosen field as my profession to attain the goal desire in life.

Academically, to garner additional units in order not to be out-dated from the hasten progress in the field of medicine.  The changes vary from time to time and I ought to be updated to equip myself in applying a better job so I am productive and flexible enough to different job opportunities around the world.

With this connection, I have decided to take Professional Teaching Certificate firstly, to impart the knowledge and skills from the clinical setting.  I want to explore the school setting, to meet the youth and various people from different walks of life.  Moreover, I would know more about the cultures and beliefs particularly the views of millennial; their values because I firmly believe I could learn things  and understand the new generations by mingling and finding their interests that would help me to grow as a person at the same time I could relay my teaching based on their values and interests.

In short that is a two way method of learning.  As student they will acquire learning academically at the same time I would get new ideas and opinions from these youngsters.  It is to transpire emphatically their world to understand their generation thoroughly so that I could cultivate with them things to be efficient to their chosen profession.

To broaden up the field chosen, is to attend and continue learning just like getting a teaching course.  It’s a new experience to determine how to incorporate the new principle of learning from present profession.  As a result, I am apparently qualified to the job needed as prerequisite so I can meet the job expectation.

We are in the modern world now so we are not only evolving in one corner to stay and wait for the next endeavor.  It is how to initiate and bring the changes in life to be career oriented and need for upgrade as well.  The society sets the various ways of updates such as attending seminars, courses, more trainings, conventions, online learning, making studies and implementation of the proven studies.

Hence, the completion of education is essential to uplift a person in different aspects of life such as sharing knowledge, skills and learning which is the utmost significant to fully developed the students practically and academically.  This is a challenge for me not only to gain in career growth but also to become financially stable because of meeting the qualifications needed in the job position. I firmly believe that people’s life has not ended in simple earning money; it is pursuing the goal to become successful in my field.  I have learned that it is not all about money; but it is quite good to equate the level of education and elevate the status of my life now.




I am nature lover. Of course, all of us can appreciate the clean and green that we have seen everywhere.  I stare the blue sky, the refreshing cool breeze that I feel in the morning, the sounds of cricket at the silence of the night, the green pasture of different animals in the forest.  I love the magnificent creation.

The environmentalists are trying to find solution to the problem about global warming.  I have simple contribution on how to reduce the heavy cargo that we presently facing by gathering to utilize the resources I have.  Well as a small entrepreneur in our barrio, I could say the thing to at least responsive to the environmental awareness to save the Mother Earth is by doing these again…


(The place of the old store before year 2015)

Those pictures were taken before Typhoon Nona devastated the area.  This was the old store.  I sold these Christmas lanterns with the lower cost to afford the price of my customers.  Those materials were made from plastics wrapper of candies, several pack of cigarettes and almost were rubbish to be thrown in the garbage can but to monetize all of these, I made this something useful and profitable.  With the small capital of glue to paste those materials in bamboo skeleton of stars, I wrapped it first of scratched papers, in fact I had collections of all the ATM receipts then I used to cover the skeleton of star.  I cut the plastic wrappers of curls or candies to make designs.  This is practical to those students who want to save more.  Instead of buying expensive decorations they can still find other resources to have recycled materials for the new creation like those PAROLS.  Rain or shine, the Christmas lanterns didn’t easily tear because it made from plastics.

It is exhausted but like what I used to say, I enjoy what I am doing.  I am happy to see the output after.  Despite the hardship I felt, I was thinking the income from those resources that almost a trash.  Likewise it is a challenging from my points of view to imagine how to become creative to make a unique material to be presented as project in the school for students, sellers and vice versa.  I remember during my school days in the public school where I enrolled at…in my Practical Arts subject, I didn’t create any presentable project to be passed to our Principal.  When I attempted my first trial, I was frightened and nervous because I could no longer imagine the output like that which was for sale and totally sold out.

We suffered a lot when Typhoon Nona hit our province.  I changed my focus, the total destruction were for all to be repaired why I stopped doing it again.  Until one day, I retrieved all the pictures from my laptop and I allowed customers to see those photos, they  have suggested to make another try the same items for this year because  I still have more time to prepare resources and very timely for the environmental awareness.

When I have read the article about the show of The Amazing Earth, this is the nice idea that comes out.  There are business online utensils made of wood for spoon, chopsticks, fork, and knife that can be a substitute to use instead of using plastic straws.  It is gradually has been seen in some fast food chain.  Likewise, it is the avoidable use of plastic bags that can affect the ozone layer so consumers have bags to bring in the market.

The simplest way and at the same time there is an earning…there is money in the trash…in tagalog May PERA sa BASURA.

Ito na iyong mga pagkakataon na huwag dapat palampasin dahil the main purpose is to solve the problem.  Magkaroon ng mga ambag para sa pag aalaga ng ating kapaligiran like simply throw the trash in a proper garbage can and the waste segregation in the recycling bin.  It is the wet waste that refers to organic, biodegradable and to non- biodegradable.  Make a pit to put all the trash then bury it.   Another thing is the self-discipline too of every individual to push the environmental awareness.  If you think my share is enough to help the problem of the environment, thanks if you appreciate it.

Start collecting materials that almost rubbish.  Make a habit to become steward in God’s creation.  Nakatulong ka na kumita ka pa.  We are not running out of time to collect garbage that can be a source of income for selling.  Walang mahirap kung nagsisikap na baguhin ang buhay at iangat ang sarili sa karukhaan.  In this way, start the change then adapt it wholeheartedly.

In promoting a certain place for tourist spots, usually the first concerned is the clean surrounding that is comfortable for visitors.  I hope I inspire you to enjoy anything which is beneficial to personal needs and in the environment as well.


MALAYANG TULIGSAAN in Philippine Setting

These are exasperated issue so please try to read… if it is really effective and can hurt to those affected …well it is up to all readers to react.

Mula pagkabata ko pa, Channel 2 na ang laging napapanuuran ko.  Ganito sa aming probinsya sa Oriental Mindoro, walang ibang makuhang ibang channel only Channel 2.  Lumipas pa ang maraming panahon, still this Channel is the accessible signal that we have.  Until I finished high school kaya nga subaybay ko ang mga teenagers noon na sina Manilyn Reynes, Ogie Alcaside, Janno Gibbs, Ruffa Guttierrez, Sherryl Cruz.  They were the cover of my notebooks when I was in high school.

In my college days naman hayan na mag Manila girl na ako pero hindi pa din naman lubusang lungsod ang Las Piñas sabi nila noon.  May ibang Channel na ang pwedeng panooran, Channel 5 ni Dr. Love na si Joe D’ Mango, wow grabe ang DJ na ito sobrang inspiring talaga ang mga mensaheng ibinibigay sa mga letter senders.  I like him in short.  Gustong gusto kong panoorin ang Dr. Love noon, maraming mga love stories na talaga namang hurtful, broken hearts plus the expectations of good advice from the DJ.

Gradually, I could see myself to explore in different channel because I was in Manila.  I could watch movie too, of course the first movie of Carmina Villaroel and Rustom Padilla grabeng kilig ang love team ng dalawa.  Sina Mikee Cojuangco and Aga Muhlach as in the ideal pattern of love teams during those times that they were hit in the showbiz industry.

When I worked abroad…it is the existence of TFC, The Filipino Channel so we had the chance to see Filipino actresses and actors.  There was no homesick at all.  After the contract, I went back home to Philippines and again I stayed in the province.  In our home, still Channel 2 pa din ang pinapanoodan  ng mga kasama ko.  Grabe kung mabibigyan lamang ba ng award ang mga Mindoreño, dapat kasama na kami pero sa City marami ng Channel na pwedeng mapanooran, palipat lipat nga lamang sila hawak ang remote control noong TV nila.  Kami naman nanatiling Channel 2.

Marami akong naging experiences sa pag aapply ng trabaho after OFW time ko.  In fact, I went there in ABS CBN compound kasi may isang malaking company dyan na hiring as Call Center Agent, mga BPO na ang usong trabaho sa Manila pagkatapos kong mag work abroad.  Syempre langit na kapag nasilayan ko ang ABS CBN kahit compound lamang iyon kasi nga mula pagkabata ko ang tanging alam ko yatang Channel is only 2.

Ang ganda ng ABS CBN.  Sabi ko noon natuntungan ko na din ang compound nila.  Pero hindi naman ako pinalad makapasa para maging Call Center Agent.  Masaya na din sa experienced na iyon.

Dumating na din ang point sa buhay ko na kailangan kong mag decide na nga.  Sa totoo lang, malaking tulong ang pagkapanalo ni President Noy Aquino kahit matindi din ang balik na batikos ko sa kanya kasi dahil sa kanya, nag decide akong mag for good na sa Pilipinas.  Hayun nagsimula na akong maghabi ng mga pangarap sa aking kinalakhan at kinamulatan.  Gumawa ako ng tunay na mission ko to establish everything.  Ganoon talaga ang buhay kailangang makita ko ang saysay ko sa mundong ito.  I really have to make my mission why I am continuously living in this world.  What is my worth why God allows me to exist here, what is really the mission that I have to cultivate.  Yeah it is the humility that really wanted me to acquire.  It is the simple living.  Mahilig kasi akong pumorma.  I am fond of wearing clothes that finds me little feeling model he he he.  Well He really wanted me to live in simplicity so I embrace it.  Totoong niyakap ko ang katotohanang iyon.

Ito na ang pinakamasayang katotohanan.  Nagkaroon ng Cable sa amin, may G-Sat, Cignal at ang huli ay Sky Cable.  Wow finally may ibang Channel na at hindi na lamang puro DOS he he he!

Ito na ang sinasabing malayang batikusan.  Makinig at humanda sa mababasa ha.  Masasabing mabilis na din ang pag unlad ng science and technology talaga nga lamang pagdating sa mga provinces e sobrang hindi kaagad iyon adaptable instantly.  Masaya na ako dahil sa Cable.  I can watch anything na din.  Kung naumay nang husto dahil sa iisang Channel 2 noon wow ngayon, isang pindot lang may CNN Philippines na.  May GMA News at iba pa ang totoong GMA ha.  Of course this is the real change in the life of everyone here in the province of Oriental Mindoro.  Hindi na lamang kami pang Channel 2, I can use remote control to transfer Channel 7.  Wow at nasa Kapuso na din.  Thankful dahil ang sabi nila number one ang Kapuso at sa isang banda tama naman dahil totoong maganda ang mga palabas nila, hakot award si Jessica Soho at maganda nga ang mga teleserye nila.  Iyong Kambal Karibal at lalo na ang Wowooowin ni Willy.  Nahirapan kaming hanapin nang nawala na iyon sa Channel 2 kasi wala namang ibang mapanooran na.  Maganda din ang komedya sa Kapuso, iyong kina Michael V at Manilyn Reynes.  Sobrang napapahagalpak nila ang pagtawa ko.  Ang Magpakailanman na matagal na palang namamayagpag kasi ang alam ko lamang MMK, I was Grade 4 then when it has been started.  Si Mel pa na dating Channel 2 kasabay ni Noli de Castro sa pagbabalita noon na ngayon ay host ng Magpakailanman akalain mo nga naman ang kapalaran ng isang tao.  Matinding kompetensiya na pala ang dalawang iyan ni Charo Santos.  Ang tanong sino nga ang tunay na number one.  Maaaring ang Probinsiyano ni Coco Martin ang show na hindi kayang pantayan dahil sa mataas na rating but the overall rating e sino nga ba…walang pikunan ha ha ha

Mas lalong pangamba ang dala ko kapag nabasa pa itong next issue.  Wala na tayong magagawa dahil sa magandang Korean Nobela para sa mga teenagers ngayon at kapag binatikos ang mga Korean Idols nila, walang panama ang balik batikos ng kabataan para dyan.

“Ano daw ang pambansang KATOL sa Pilipinas…”

“E ano daw?”

“ABS CBN LOGO dahil mukhang katol ha ha ha!”

O sige patuloy lamang ang batikos dahil sa matinding balik na igagawad nila.  Saan ka sa Kapuso o Kapamilya…tsaran…

Sagot ko sa ABC 5 na lamang ako ha ha ha!  Sabay ganyon he he he!

Magpagandahan na lamang ng logo kamo so of course sa GMA kapuso ako dahil always may HEART he he he!

Kung gusto naman na mawala ang Denque Fever sa bansa, mag ABS CBN na para tanggal lamok ha ha ha!

Ang MAPIKON talo kaya it is always the head…why in the HUMAN ANATOMY it is say that HEAD is superior than HEART, it is the weighing scale in decision making.

Salamat sa nagbigay ng panahon na basahin ang kalokohang ito.  If these are exasperated well…ito po ay isang hamon sa mga local network natin ngayon na mas gawing epektibo ang inyong palabas upang maging kaiga igaya para sa mga manunood na katulad naming hindi maiwasang magkumpara sabay PUNA he he he!

Well it is how to improve your SHOW…ano bang unusual ingredient mayroon ang isang Jessica Soho compare to Korina Sanchez…the best answer is the INTEGRITY…bakit humahakot ng multi-award ang show niya than Koring ha ha ha!

Panahon na para tuligsain he he he!

Sa Showtime ni Vice Ganda, naku takot nilang batikusin ang baklang ire….tanda ninyo ang isang member ng Hashtag na namatay at may isang basher doon na ipinahap talaga nitong si Vice pero tuluyang namatay na din ang issue.  Ako kaya ipahanap din ni Vice Ganda…kapag binatikos ko din  sina Zeus and Alonte…sasabihin ko ganito…kaya naman kasi madalas ang exposure ng dalawang iyan ay dahil kapit-tuko kay Vice.  Alam mo naman gamitan lamang para sa kasikatan….sige nga Vice…ipapahanap mo kaya ako he he he!  Malamang hindi kasi alam niya na pinapanood ko ang Showtime at ang evidence is how would I know that these two actors are regular in Showtime ha ha ha!  Masasabi ko ba ang katotohanang ito kung hindi ako fun ng show nila he he he!  I hate you Vice bakit kamo….ang lakas mong mamula e double GANDA naman ni Anne Curtis sa iyo ano?  He he he!  Sige Vice mag hide and seek tayo ikaw ang taya…hanap hanap dalawa kayo ni Jackie.

Kung ang pambansang HAYOP ngayon ng Pilipinas ay KABAYO mayroon na ding pamabansang KATOL…

I imagine, Vice slapped my face….

“Huwag po, huwag po…hindi na po uulit…he he he!”

Welcome to my coloROOM, coloROAM….isang magandang araw ang sumasa inyo….




The Way of Courtship in the Philippines

The distinction of many nations in the culture and beliefs that is noticeable once it tackles this issue in the class discussions or even in simply way of chit chatting in certain group or circle of friends.  Let me discuss it further the old or the traditional way of courtship in the Philippine setting.

This was my experience when one student approached me to do some research about courtship.  The student was taking his K12.  I told him to find in Google the answer because Google can feed impossible topics that can answer his question but he wanted the Philippine Setting and perhaps from true experience so I try to recall what we had in our conversation regarding this why I try to put it here my answers.  Well with the simple interview he had done, probably for him this was the effective part of his research why he wanted to prove the said research was reliable.


When I was a child, I heard the old way of courtship through giving handwritten love letters using scented stationery, serenading (harana) as in the man woos the woman with his guitar while singing in front of the girl’s house. If the woman stays in the window and enjoy the way the guy is doing there, that is a chance to get the sweetest YES from a woman.  The parents had observed the lovers inside the house once the guy visited his girl.  If the girl answered the love letters, it means she also loves her admirer.  That was the time to be in a relationship.  This was the way of courtship during my childhood days that I observed and when it comes to serenade, this was according to the story of my grandparents and other folks that I talked.

If the parents had seen the shake hands or even touching the woman’s hand of a man, the thought of having an affair so the tendency they let to marry them.  That is how the strictness to be observed of parents before.  They could not reason out so they simply follow the parents even though it is against to their will.

In times of my grandparents, they were not exactly became lovers, my grandfather helped the parents of my grandmother in harvesting plants from the field where they worked to earn for a living.  My grandfather asked the hands of my grandmother to marry their daughter.  He simply gave love letters as a symbol that he likes his girl though my grandmother was not aware what it was because she was too young to know about courtship in her times.  They marriage last longer that I witnessed the forever in them.  Lolo was the best Lolo, they were now in heaven together.

Let me share the situation of my parents how they became lovers.  There are some believers about “gayuma” or love charm, potions.  Tatay or my father had Latin words he used during the time he visited my mother.  Some believed the story but the rest were just nodding to stop the argument.  During the time of courtship, my mother was desperately in love with my father.  They got married but after a couple of years they were separated.  The thought of the ineffective prayer had done for the Latin words as his love charm he used to capture my mother’s heart.

Modern Way

          In millennial age as of today, the queer way of courtship is observable so let me tackle this in a simplest and based on the fact that is happening to teenagers, single men, or women and many more.

Well because of the new modern technology and social media, to woo to a certain girl is the easiest way than before.  There are many accesses like computer, cellphone to start asking the date.  Usually they begin as text mate, chat mate and the very common is thru match making.  Sometimes the parents prefer a guy or women for their daughters.  They talked parents to parents until they go on to the final decision of settling down.

Traditionally, the flowers and chocolates are not new anymore because it still practicing in our modern times.

The specific one is the Asian Dating in the internet that usually foreigners meet ladies thru net.  In a simple chatting, they have developed the friendship that turns to a relationship.  The guy decided to visit the country to meet the girl.  There are many happy ending relationships in this kind of courtship stage that exists now.

The Comparison of the Old and Modern Way of Courtship

This is exhilarates to distinguish the modern times of how the men and women show the affection to somebody they love.  Through mere chatting until they go on with dating, they have known each other from exchanging their likes and dislikes. It is the test of compatibilities in order to attain the goal of the happy ever after.


There are many successful love stories that can inspire us in order not to feel bitter in the entire life.  It is a matter of patience to wait for the perfect timing, the earnest prayer and the sincerity to ask the guidance of the Holy Spirit.  It is the book of Pastor Rick Warren in Purpose Driven Life that no matter what religion we belong, the maturity in him to share how God manifest the life of an individual, He is the true God and no need to question about it.  He never tackled in his book the beliefs of each religion.  He focuses how God move in the lives of everyone.  He initiates readers to make God as the center of everything, the covenant prayer, our personal relationships or the personal encounter that shape us to come closer to our true God and everything the hearts’ desire is possible.

This is what I learned in reading the book for the spiritual growth, the secret key why the stronghold from courtship stage until such time they have decided to settle down and become a family.


Well no matter what ways we strictly follow for ourselves, still it depends on the person which they prefer most.  Either the old or new way of courtship has it is, people tend to become firm to what they believe in. It is the uniqueness in us that some are liberated or old fashioned… I mean conservative so it depends on the person if they want the old or new way to practice the courtship.

I experienced to receive scented stationeries love letters with chocolates from a guy.  It took long years he had done the courtship but I ignored it.  He had begun sending me love letters since I was eight till I was fourteen.  The love story sometimes is through match making.   That was what happened in us.  The people matched us until we became lovers but accident torn us apart.

It is a great feeling that somebody woos or court us, to show how special person we are why we tend to extremely fall for a guy.  The experiences teach us lesson in some points of view like to religiously follow the old or the modern way of courtship.  To test the seriousness or the sincerity of a person is to let come and visit the house.  Meet the parents personally.  Allow them to know the parents.

Merely chatting or texting is another modern way of courting a girl.  The relationship starts before letting them to meet the parents.  So it really depends on the person how to cope up with their style to begin everything.

This is a closing remark that I want to leave:

The first move is always from a guy or let say the guy tries to weigh first his stand before pursuing his goal.  To have an equal footer for that, ladies have the right to show the feelings too.  Sometimes it is better for ladies to tell their feelings and being honest to say what they feel.  As of today what I want…I highly prefer to let the man knows my feelings…why need to take so long if it turns to nothing.  Tell right away if we don’t like the guy, be straight to the point than hurting them, letting them fall but in the end, there is no assurance to have good ending.  Precisely it is difficult to turn down the guy but that is better that way than to offend him.  Remember that there are many depression cases because of love.  It is inevitable to hear our side.

I have met a guy who is now a mentally ill because of the failure to show his feeling.  He could not write nor read so how to make letters or even telling to the girl what he really feels.  He has not given the chance to become literate at least to read and write is an edge to get what he wants to but the saddest part of the story, he becomes collector of garbage in the barrio.  He is a barrio aid, the dirty man who keeps himself a deadly living human being that has no direction at all.  This is an eye opener for us to let be the straight to the point at all times for not bringing the burden to this kind of cargo in men’s heart.

Being hurt is sometimes good enough to become courageous to face life.  When I heard the inner voice that kept on saying be strong, I have realized what are those things meant.  It is how God prepares us to expect what else to come in our lives.  We should be ready to feel the utmost bitterness but through the end of journey, it is the enlightenment of the better future glimpse in every step going upstairs in the ladder to witness what we are waiting for.


Interview personally the subject in the research. So upon giving this idea, I hope it helps to know the effective way to do to have a good and presentable research to pass.  This could be additional information if the personal data of a person is the sub topic in every project that students need.

This is how I help my customers.  Aside from assisting them to know how to use computer, the free tutorial has done too for teaching them what to do.  Free service and that is excluded to their payment, in printing the output is as lower as five pesos per page if plain text but the additional three pesos if they prefer colored with small picture in simple text.  I ask them twenty five pesos per hour, we have poor connection of internet why peso net cannot be adaptable in my place.  The users are conscientious and patient doing the project, I always remind them to exert an effort if they want to get higher grades.  We are in the computer world so adapt all the necessary things to do to be upgraded or updated.  I have many things that I really don’t know so when it comes to learning strategies, basically I am not contented to what I have learned, still my knowledge is lacking in some field but helping them is quite a fulfilling task and performing the mission that keeps me moving.


The Criticisms Issue

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I feel so embarrassed upon promoting the province where I live at.  I thought everything is quite fine to depict the wonders in some other parts of Oriental Mindoro.  As of today, we are suffering the tremendous illness that seems to be an endemic in my place due to intermittent brown out, the on and off rotten system of the management before the schedule of reading the bills. Though they place the suggestion box to improve their service, still that is nothing.  They are considered futile to make an improvement.  It is the nerve to let the people know that my province is spectacular for having the unusual thing in it but promoting in tourism, am I right to effectively pursuing it?  That is questionable particularly the recent problem that we are facing.

I am one of Yahoo News reactors, that after reading, at the bottom of the story, there is column for the comments.  I am fond creating my reactions.  Perhaps the issue is quite boring to argue with why I changed my activities.  I have nothing to do except to raise my reactions.  There are many issues to weigh which sides are excellently right but most of other comments are against to what the Philippine government is trying to be different, to bring the real change for the common good.  So directly speaking I don’t like the topic anymore why I want to take this chance to write which is far from politics issue.  And that the content is only in Yahoo News and not to bring the issue in this site.  Everyone needs the quality time to relax and for me this site is the appropriate one to have the topics that tackles to light issues….something like stress free and no pressure at all.  We avoid negative vibes and carrying the issues of politics is not something good to hear, hey please give me a break.

Of course, I am curious to know about this site.  What is the content to make different.  I just don’t know why other Filipinos bring the politics issue, the hate to the present administration.  I have read the different new discoveries and I love that.  I just don’t know why other Filipinos boosting their ego to compete that this is the site to burst out their sentiments when it comes to the style of writing strategies…they want competition, they close their fist to prove ‘I can do that too.’  There are few Filipinos that really unpredictable sometimes, well expect the crab mentality.  I am here to share the positivity that we need in life.

I want to feel the silence in the environment.  I want the quiet place to rest and free from difficulties to find solution.  Sharing any good thoughts are quite good.  If anyone feels exhausted, visiting this site is the medicine at least to read some inspiring and forget the annoying side of the story.  It could help a lot honestly.  We utilize anything that makes us comfortable while reading and not to mix any emotions for only to one sided and favorable to the writers.  The enigmatic thoughts why they have shared some issues that should to be seen in tabloid and not applicable to read here.  Their topics are not suited to be here because as far as I know, this is the inspiring site that should be the remarkable one.  Is it inspiring the way Go and Trillianes in their argument, the close fight regarding the election 2019, oh my goodness, for heavens’ sake please.  They acted like ignorant and not good influence to others.  Instead of fighting, give some contributions on how to make the Philippines an edge to become the progressive one.

The next is the priest issue, it is better to the priest to keep distance, let them move away from the normal human being  in order for them to keep their safety and avoid to be endangered…safe from anything like temptations to women.  They keep on telling us that we tempted that priest why they want to get outside the convent… put in the proper place the way you have done your protest.

Well I guess it is better to promote anything which is not related to politics than promoting my province because of the poor performance they show. That is shocking news because brownout is the main source of the problem that hinders to prosper the entire place.  Move forward so please stop to look backward…it is always the pushing and not pulling one another.  Sometimes it is better to be with other nationalities, they show the real concerned, how compassionate they are and the sincerity they have that really comes from the heart.

The drowned feeling once other nations care for us so much.  It is always the empathy that could not be given thoroughly to our fellow Filipinos.

That is the saddest part of every story particularly to Filipinos attitude.  They should be happy for others’ success and that is how to become good Christian.  What kind of motivation during their infant days, to nurture the kind of attitude that is pleasant to everyone? And how the parents mold them…they keep on criticizing each other.  That is pathetically a disgusting side that is full of embarrassment.

Statistically speaking, the truth is there are many overseas Filipino workers around the world.  I want the change to be seen in them, in spite of biting each other, try to help and do the hand in hand pushing to be cooperative in many ways.  It is the thrust to become initiative in helping one another…though quite hard to do it, well just for the sake that we are all Filipinos not mere in words but in heart that pours the love to one another.